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The Abuse Double Bind
You’re wrong if you don’t - and fake if you do.
Apr 28
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Belinda Bancroft
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He Never Said “You Can’t Go Out” - But I Stopped Going Anyway
How subtle control can shrink your world without a single direct command.
Apr 21
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Belinda Bancroft
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He Never Said “You Can’t Go Out” - But I Stopped Going Anyway
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Why Silence Is a Weapon
Abuse doesn’t always sound loud - it’s often quiet, calculated, and crushing.
Apr 14
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Belinda Bancroft
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Abuse Isn’t a Loss of Control - It’s a Choice
What They Do in Private Tells You Everything
Apr 7
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Belinda Bancroft
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Abuse Isn’t a Loss of Control - It’s a Choice
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December 2024
When Men Say They Want “Respect,” What They Often Mean is “Obedience”
Why True Respect in Relationships Isn’t About Control—It’s About Equality
Dec 5, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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When Men Say They Want “Respect,” What They Often Mean is “Obedience”
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November 2024
The Real Power in Saying “No” to Uncomfortable Compromises
Why Refusing to Compromise on Your Values Isn’t Selfish—It’s Self-Respect
Nov 28, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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The Real Power in Saying “No” to Uncomfortable Compromises
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Why “Just Let It Go” is the Worst Advice After Betrayal
Why Real Healing Comes from Facing the Pain, Not Burying It
Nov 21, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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Why “Just Let It Go” is the Worst Advice After Betrayal
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The Quiet Manipulation of “I Don’t Want to Talk About It”
When Silence Isn’t Peace—It’s Control
Nov 14, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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Stop Calling It “Trust Issues”—You Were Just Lied To
Why Protecting Your Peace Isn’t a “Trust Issue”—It’s Self-Respect
Nov 7, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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Stop Calling It “Trust Issues”—You Were Just Lied To
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October 2024
How the “Cool Girlfriend” (or Cool Wife) Trope Has Really Screwed Us Over
Why Being the “Cool” Partner Only Serves Everyone But You
Oct 31, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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How the “Cool Girlfriend” (or Cool Wife) Trope Has Really Screwed Us Over
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When Forgive and Forget is Toxic
Finding Healing on Your Terms
Oct 27, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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Things I Wish I’d Known Before the End
Lessons from a Toxic Marriage
Oct 18, 2024
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Belinda Bancroft
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